I have to say that as independent and strong as I once thought I was, driving 6 hours and camping for 7 days with the boys felt a daunting task. I remember being struck by the feeling of vulnerablity after having Hudson in a way that shocked me. I had lost so much muscle tone after being pregnant that I never remembered being so weak. (Even though I just rocked out a natural birth) I remember feeling fear that I wouldn't be able to protect him if I were attacked. I felt like prey, a very hormonal, natural response to motherhood. After, having Eli those feelings tripled and didn't like being out of my house much. I remember being invited to beach trips and other things and feeling I just couldn't handle both kids on my own if their was an emergency... So I didn't go anywhere beyond Lexington/Berea with them for 5 years.
This March I felt stir crazy for a Spring Break and Keith had to work. I decided it was time to take off with the kiddos. Alot of my worst fear scenarios happened and the universe tested me and it exhausted me fo' sure but in the end I felt I had my power back. I felt a little more like my old, fearless, laid back self. The car broke down, it poured rain, our flashlights didn't work, the boys and I got sick, camp stoves wouldn't light, and I managed to only cry once and then drink a few much needed beers around the fire and laugh at myself and the fact that I am floating in space on a giant rock and I think I have control of my universe...
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The best part of hanging with Lily is she has fairy dress ups! |
The Smokey Mtns were beautiful and we were with beautiful people...
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The kids doing stage perfomance, "Why you shouldn't feed Baby Animals"
It was riveting. |
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Easter in the woods... Probably not smart in bear country... |
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"I just threw my shoes in the river." |
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"I'm the good son. I still have my shoes on." |
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Andri and Amanda, good buddies 'o mine. |
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Eli and Lillybelle... |
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The boys giving into pressure from the girls... |